IN HIGH PRESSURE SITUATIONS, YOUR ATTENTION SHIFTS INWARD

You can learn how to shift it back

DOES YOUR ATTENTION FEEL SCATTERED RIGHT BEFORE:

Asking someone out that you're interested in dating
Walking into your boss's office to ask for a raise
Walking on stage to perform in front of an audience
Pitching a product or service to the marketplace
Messaging someone you matched with on a dating app
Breaking up with someone you're dating
Firing an employee who's been with your company for a long time
Quitting your job to pursue another opportunity
Interviewing, auditioning, performing, competing, or pitching
Putting yourself out there in any high-stakes situation

IN HIGH-STAKES SITUATIONS, IT'S NORMAL TO FEEL YOUR ATTENTION MOVE TOWARD:

WATCHING YOURSELF

You overthink how you look and how you're coming across

EVALUATING YOURSELF

You judge yourself and compare yourself to others

DOUBTING YOURSELF

You hesitate and second-guess your abilities in the moment

THIS IS YOUR ATTENTION SHIFTING INWARD

Instead of outwardly engaging in the moment, your attention gets pulled away to monitor you

WHEN YOUR ATTENTION SHIFTS INWARD, IT CREATES NOISE THAT DISTRACTS YOU

This makes it harder to think, speak, and act under pressure; you don’t feel calm, clear, and confident when your attention is constantly being pulled away

The further inward your attention goes, the louder the noise becomes, the faster your thoughts race, and the more nervous, indecisive, and lost you feel

CATCH > SORT > CHOOSE HELPS YOU POINT YOUR ATTENTION OUTWARD TOWARD THE SIGNAL

When you catch your attention turning inward and sort the signal from the noise, you can choose where your attention goes next: back outward

This is a trainable skill; the more you practice shifting your attention from inward to outward, the more your attention will sort out the noise on its own

IMAGINE LESS NOISE WHEN YOU ARE:

Navigating dating apps
Pitching business ideas
Negotiating your salary
Making sales calls
Networking at events
Auditioning for roles
Meeting new people
Using social media
Arguing with people
Doing anything challenging

YOUR ATTENTION WILL AMPLIFY EITHER THE SIGNAL OR THE NOISE

If you get good at redirecting it toward the signal in front of you:

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